Here are the texts I exchanged with Wife today:
Me: Next weekend is so far away
Wife: I guess you haven't checked the email. We have a conflict.
Me: :( Maybe we could go earlier
Me: So eat & meet, leave early
Wife: Sounds good to me :)
Later Thursday evening
Me: Sure you don't want to meet tomorrow night? It's just an hour or two?
Previously she always said no.
Me: Hmmm. Want to see if he's available?
Wife: I guess so
Me: Wow :) :) :)
Wife: :$ (blush)
Me: Ok when I get home I'll write an email
Wife: Did we talk about this Sunday?
Me: Ok that will give us a couple of options :*
So we've asked. Wish us luck.
And we've agreed - no sex until we meet him.
6 years ago