I realize that we never let you know what has happened with Mr. D. Where we left off, he and Wife were texting and emailing on a pretty regular basis, and he was eager to meet us, both of us. The idea of pleasing my wife while I watched (or even participated) was a big turn on for him. He’s a couple years older than us and divorced. We got the impression that he didn’t have much opportunity for sex and this fantasy was very exciting for him.
He lives about an hour from us, so we suggested a meeting for dinner about half way between. Unfortunately, he couldn’t make it the day we suggested and we couldn’t make it for awhile any other night. Finally we were all available on Wednesday night, June 17.
The necessary communication between Wife and Mr. D trying to set up our first meeting was not all that sexual. As they went back and forth trying to find an available time, it seems that he gradually began to realize that this may really happen, and that maybe it wouldn’t live up to his fantasy. I’m guessing at this but you could sense something was different from the tone of his emails. He was slower to respond and less excited.
Anyway, we finally agreed to meet on a Wednesday night for dinner. On Sunday I sent him an email to confirm the time and place along with some tips on some of the things Wife likes while flirting and a reminder of our expectations (must be non smoker, D&D free, first meeting there will be no sex, condom use, etc.). With the exception of the pointers on how to turn my wife on, there was nothing we hadn’t said to him before, but he replied that we have “WAY TOO MANY RULES” and called it off.
Maybe we do have too many rules, but we state them in all the ads we have posted. None of this should be a surprise to any of the men that respond. We also sprinkle them throughout our emails with them to make sure there are no surprises.
We thought about softening the rules, but if Wife is going to let your cock into her pussy, she deserves to say what she wants. We made the mistake of not having STM confirm that he is a non smoker, and that was the one negative from our encounter with him. In fact, that may have been the one thing that kept him from being invited to spend the entire night. So we might be too picky, but we’re not going to lower our standards. I think the right man is out there. Maybe it’s Mr. E.
5 years ago