tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722097095544752572.post2550325729540110474..comments2023-07-28T13:41:42.560-04:00Comments on Wife Takes A Lover: What Ever Happened to Mr. D?Quiet Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16431864588170142615noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722097095544752572.post-55218187551507572882009-07-25T20:32:22.452-04:002009-07-25T20:32:22.452-04:00PDXsubcuck & Anon: Thanks for the encouragemen...PDXsubcuck & Anon: Thanks for the encouragement. When you get a reaction like that from someone that in the past has seemed rational, it makes you consider their point of view. But our rules are pretty lenient so I don't know what his problem is. And I don't care.<br /><br />I must say the biggest reason I like this is the pleasure it brings Wife. Wife wasn't as vocal as the wife in my next post, but my favorite picture of Wife with STM is one with a blissful expression on her face. It makes me feel good that I could give that to her.Quiet Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16431864588170142615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722097095544752572.post-16289268059902815802009-07-22T21:30:12.980-04:002009-07-22T21:30:12.980-04:00OMG, what a clown...All that talking for nothing. ...OMG, what a clown...All that talking for nothing. He should have said something upfront and yes your wife needs rules, so FK him......<br /><br />This is anon = female....LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5722097095544752572.post-34101175426255046112009-07-21T00:52:39.697-04:002009-07-21T00:52:39.697-04:00Arrrgghhhh....another guy that wants to tell the c...Arrrgghhhh....another guy that wants to tell the couple that their rules are too many or wrong or what ever. Kind of like the guys that respond to an ad requesting tall men, my wife likes men at least 6'0"..."I'm tall 5'4" but I am sure your wife will love me." They want a blonde or what ever and would not bend on that but your rules aren't really important...to them!<br /><br />He was all of sudden aware that it might happen and he was in a panic. He wanted it as a fantasy not as something that would really happen. I can understand that but if you really only want it as a fantasy you don't really need to drag a couple or a woman into it and waste their time.<br /><br />Only change your rules when you want to, as he made it clear he is unwilling to change his rules, even the ones he did not tell anyone about.<br /><br />I also get a bit bugged by people telling me why I do something and isn't it a shame that I force my wife into it or I'm really gay. <br /><br />I don't understand all the reasons we do this, I don't think my wife understands all the reasons she enjoys it but she does and so do I. If you knew my wife you would know that there is NO way I could force her into this. She isn't built that way and I don't work that way. If she didn't enjoy it I would not enjoy it. The times I was worried that she was doing out of a sense of obigation to the guy or to me pretty much killed it for me. She isn't that good of an actress to convince me that she really wants to go to bed with a guy that she doesn't really want to go bed with.<br /><br />We have been playing on and off for twenty-two years and our playing has changed. I am sure it will keep changing as time goes on. However it does have to be fun for both of us, when it isn't fun for the both of us is when it will end. <br /><br />Good luck on your search and have fun. Don't let the twits get you down!PDXsubcuckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03705717128396052095noreply@blogger.com