Wednesday, September 8, 2010

August Has Been Hot!

Let me give you a quick update on all the sex we’ve been having.  None.  Well that’s not completely true.  We’ve had sex with each other.  It’s been hot too.  But sex with others has been zip.

Wife met a new guy, but then he went out of town for 3 weeks.  No chance for fun there yet.  She has tried to hook up with BD but schedules haven’t worked out.  And Mr. H only came back to town when she was sick.

We went to a meet and greet we saw on SwingLifeStyle.  Everyone was very friendly.  We decided not to go to the after party (or as the host described it to Wife “We’re going to go back to our house and screw.”)  We felt we needed to know people at least an hour before we strip down for an orgy.  Plus this crowd was a bit (ok some a lot) older than us.  Hmm, I wonder if we would feel different if they had been younger than us.

We had a very fun evening at a night club with a group of lifestyle friends.  Lots of dancing and flirting.

We’ve also been to another party with the same group of friends as the first two.  From what I hear of other parties, this is a very mild party crowd, not pushy at all.  It seems that long time friends hook up there.  Guess we’re not on the list yet.  Still we have a great time.

I haven’t even been on that lunch date with my not so secret admirer.  Between illnesses, vacations, kids and work we haven’t been able to go.  We have made plans several times but something has always come up.

But things are looking up.  We have several couples interested in chatting and meeting.  Now we just need to find time to actually meet and see what happens.

2 comments:

Margie said...

I had to laugh at "We’ve had sex with each other. It’s been hot too"

Most 1/2 s of your average couple would be glad to be able to say that..(so of course if each 1/2 told each other that there'd be a lot less divorce!)

I mean I get where you are coming from but I DO get (now) how much hotter everything is with a little extra-curricular activity.

Quiet Man said...

@Margie, Oh yeah, there is nothing wrong with our sex life. We enjoy each other a lot and often.

And when we get to have an extra-curricular activity, we enjoy each other even more. Odd how that works. I've heard this can occur when a spouse has an affair, but in our case part of the added affection is because one spouse gave the other sex with another person. That is such an amazing gift that we just want to thank the other in a big way.

Thanks for reading and thanks for commenting too.

QM