Let me give you a quick update on all the sex we’ve been having. None. Well that’s not completely true. We’ve had sex with each other. It’s been hot too. But sex with others has been zip.
Wife met a new guy, but then he went out of town for 3 weeks. No chance for fun there yet. She has tried to hook up with BD but schedules haven’t worked out. And Mr. H only came back to town when she was sick.
We went to a meet and greet we saw on SwingLifeStyle. Everyone was very friendly. We decided not to go to the after party (or as the host described it to Wife “We’re going to go back to our house and screw.”) We felt we needed to know people at least an hour before we strip down for an orgy. Plus this crowd was a bit (ok some a lot) older than us. Hmm, I wonder if we would feel different if they had been younger than us.
We had a very fun evening at a night club with a group of lifestyle friends. Lots of dancing and flirting.
We’ve also been to another party with the same group of friends as the first two. From what I hear of other parties, this is a very mild party crowd, not pushy at all. It seems that long time friends hook up there. Guess we’re not on the list yet. Still we have a great time.
I haven’t even been on that lunch date with my not so secret admirer. Between illnesses, vacations, kids and work we haven’t been able to go. We have made plans several times but something has always come up.
But things are looking up. We have several couples interested in chatting and meeting. Now we just need to find time to actually meet and see what happens.
5 years ago